we’ve been potty training g with some success, although the number 2 has been a bit more of a challenge. but because of this, the words pee pee and poop have become more common in our everyday vernacular. except gavin does not say poop, for whatever reason. he prefers “poot.”
a couple weeks ago we were out of coffee creamer. this is a sad and dire day in our lives, the day without coffee creamer. all we had to cream our coffee was almond milk, which is not the same. i thought i could make myself a bit of a ghetto mocha, using some microwave chocolate sauce i had lying around. so i put that in, but it did not taste very chocolatey. experiment fail.
however, when i was done with my coffee there was a large unseemly lump of brown at the bottom of my coffee cup. i thought it looked rather like poop and said so. erin says “look gavin! there’s poop in daddy’s coffee mug!” gavin looks over, interestedly.
“POOT!” he says, excitedly, and points at the bottom of the mug. “POOT!”
we would say something here, but we’re too busy laughing our heads off. for example, i’d like to assure gavin that i don’t really drink poot. but he’s so excited about the poot in my mug, do i really want to crush the illusion?
so this morning, gavin comes over and sees my mug. “Poot?” he asks, and leans over to check.
no, gavin, no poot today. and it will be a long time before i live this down…
here are some pictures of halloween cuties.
and here’s one of mama and lilah from lilah’s first birthday party
and lilah and daddy on her b-day
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from both kids!
Lilah has been saying what sounded suspiciously like “Mama” for a while now. In the last couple of weeks, it’s become undeniable that she is talking! She says “Daddy”, “Mama”, “uh-oh”, “no”, “hat” and something that sounds like it’s supposed to come out to be “Gavin”. She also signs “hat” and “more” in ASL, nods her head yes, and claps.
Gavin is using several word phrases more and new words everyday. He really likes singing too. His favorite new words this week are “dragon”, “pasta”, “circle” and “color”.
tonight at 3:09 am is the 1 year anniversary of Lilah’s arrival into the outside world. we are thrilled to have spent the last year with you, baby girl!
here is a poem I wrote for you when we were waiting to see you for the first time.
still waiting for a beginning in a series of beginnings, i frown, impatient. i can not possibly ready myself, this world for you but
you are coming and we will welcome you
so small yet you can hurt already, you can want, you are entire
you are whole and i am more than whole with you
inside. i am too big, i am two
we are two we are coming apart from our merged lumps
i am impatient to be one again, to feel you slide out and to look you in the face, to hear you scream and
tell me you are someone
and i will always carry you inside
inside my thoughts and inside my sea of love for you, for this family, connected
beyond any day, beyond any conversation we are
the same, we are one, we belong.
there is no argument.
instead there are ever lengthening strands of time and love that follow every movement we make, you
and i and us
long before the cord that gives you blood and oxygen is cut, long before you
develop a belly button scar from the physical connection we have while you’re inside me, there was a
stronger cord, one that is made of crazy linked proteins in our genes and of love and
i hope that you feel it forever
a net, a web, a line of color and minutes and consciousness
from me to you from
you to me and back and back
and back
at long last…
here they are! presenting the new pictures:
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Gavin and Lilah cuddle on the couch
Cuddling (or possible scheming)
Lilah poses on the couchwalk
Fun together
Gavin getting the tubtoys clean
Excited about a toy
but I haven’t had a chance to upload any yet. hopefully soon I will find the time. In the meantime, here’s an update.
Gavin is speaking more and more and singing too. He is loving being in a two kid household as he has discovered some new techniques for playing with his sister. He calls her “babywawah” and he runs up and down the hall calling her to come after him. He also uses his empty juice cup to try to lure her. He loves to give her hugs and help to take care of her. He’s always urging us to give her more babyfood and if we aren’t quick enough he will head over to manage the situation himself.
Lilah is sooo big now. Not abnormally so, just she’s such a different baby than she was 11 &1/2 months ago. She’s standing unassisted for a few seconds and mimics noises and nods her head and waves. She is always hunting for food and she adores her big brother. She gets so excited when she sees him she waves her arms around. Lilah loves music and will do a little bobbing baby dance to tunes she particularly likes.
They are sharing a bedroom now which they see to enjoy. Lilah wakes up in the night often, but doesn’t seem to disturb Gavin most of the time. Of course, seeing as he can sleep through her screaming two feet away from him in the back of the car I’m not too shocked by this.
Gavin still loves to cuddle and give kisses and hugs and I am so grateful that he hasn’t outgrown affection. I hope he never does. I realized recently that Gavin’s spoken language is different than other kids his age because his vocabulary is so much more limited, but his comprehension is the same. So, some words he uses have many separate meaning and can carry a whole set of instructions or expectations in ways that usually only happen in very sparse poetry. I only realize the basis for this when we are with other people who are baffled by a single word Gavin says has a much more elaborate meaning to him and to me, coming from him. I wonder if this will effect his later communication or if it will just be left behind as his vocabulary becomes larger. As an example: the word “water” coming from Gavin can mean any of the following: I’d like to wash my hands 17 times in a row, it’s raining, I’d like a bath, I need to pee, I see a liquid substance that isn’t juice, there is a wet spot that needs to be cleaned up. The word “green” means any color, something green, a marker, a crayon, I’d like to color, I’d like to draw. I think it’s fascinating how something I commonly perceive as a preset group of rules that apply equally to all people are actually very fluid.
here are a few favorite pictures from the short but sweet time at the beach in California
Erin, Lilah & Gpa McC
Chris and Lilah
Gavin and Gpa McClenahan brave the wavelets
Packing the sand for a sandcastle tower
Getting ready to tip it upside down... (Gavin's excited!)
Who's in charge and who's helping here?
Lilah & Erin down the beach
Lilah is enjoying herself almost as much as Erin
More Erin & Lilah
Gavin had more than one party for his third birthday. He’s a lucky boy. Here are a few highlights:
Hey, this looks pretty good!
Meara, do you really think we should open this?
It’s so pretty wrapped up!
Playing with new alphabet and number stickers
Gavin named all of them and started on a second round before we distracted him with cookies shaped like stars.
What Lilah did at Gavin's party...
She’s wondering if she can make it to any wrapping paper bits before Gavin takes them all away.
Lilah and Grandpa McClenahan
Playing catch with Meara
Gavin and Grandma Reynolds looking at a special card
It has cars that move! Big hit with Gavin!
A group shot of most of the Reynolds
Gavin is reaching for the wheelchair handles here. Great Gma and Gpa R. got some wild rides from Gavin. Everyone involved enjoyed it quite a bit. Lilah is watching in hopes she can participate in the wheelchair race events next time.
Gavin with Grandma & Grandpa Johnston
Gavin hopped right up to sit with them on the bench here.
Some Johnstons on the way to the beach
Some of the Johnstons at La Selva on the way down to the beach and some Reynolds on their way up met in the middle.
Pictures of us enjoying the beach will be coming next.
in this episode, we find Lilah, who has seen her brother’s antics and wants to get in on the fun:
maybe there will be a redux of the old 80s TV show, The Newlywed Game. If so, Gavin is practicing to be the host:
